Alain De BottonWe pick our friends not only because they are kind and enjoyable company, but also, perhaps more importantly, because they understand us for who we think we are.
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To be a friend we must know and understand someone else. No one can truly be a friend without that knowledge and understanding. We pick our friends out of the people we know and choose those that we think understand us and can help us develop into who we want to be.
Source: The Consolations Of Philosophy
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